How to find the perfect gift for impossible-to-buy-for types this Christmas

Buying Christmas presents is something you either love or hate, but even the ultimate festive fan can struggle when it comes to those who are just plain difficult to buy for.

We all have them in our lives – the relative who seems to own everything already, the elderly aunt we buy the same thing for year after year, and the ones who are so picky that it's impossible to find anything you're confident they'll actually like. So, where should we even start?

Peter Jenkinson (@toyologist), a toy and games expert who runs Toyology.co.uk, suggests organising personalised gifts: "Firebox and Prezzybox are great for bespoke gifts, where you can pick up almost anything, from socks to pillowcases, with a photo printed on them.

"If you're looking for something that's truly one-off, the Etsy crafters website (Etsy.com/UK) will draw you into a world of wonderful items – it's like taking a trip to loads of craft markets without the crowds.

"Experiences are a huge thing this year, too," he continues, "from gin-making days to zoo-keeping.

"Consider a subscription of some kind, from a bi-weekly bacon delivery to a new set of socks every month. These are great, as they pop through the postbox, and it's a gift that keeps on giving."

If you are still in need of help, here are some more top tips for tackling different categories of tricky recipients – and (hopefully!) making them happy on December 25...

Friends and family who already have everything

"It's certainly not about getting a big gift," notes Jenkinson. "But try something with thought behind it – a personalised poster or a leather notebook embossed with their name."

Or, go with a game. "Bring back the 'all round the table' family games," says John Lewis & Partners Operations and Brand Experience Manager, Shelley Sturdy. "Pass The Bomb, Linkee and Very British Problems are three bestsellers which will keep them laughing.

"You could also go to Waitrose.com and treat your friends or family to a gift certificate that can be used at one of the three cookery schools. They can learn to cook the perfect steak or delicious Italian bread – a gastronomic treat for any foodie."

And if you're struggling with what to get the men in your life, check out manlymanco.com for some some unique gift ideas. 

Children you haven't seen for a while

Lots of stores recommend top toys for Christmas, so it's worth looking out for these, and John Lewis will be hosting talks on what to buy for kids as the festivities draw closer.

Tricky teens

"The toughest crowd," says Jenkinson. "It's too easy to say streaming music service vouchers or online gaming credits. Try an experience for them – karting, driving, gliding or even chocolate making."

Sturdy suggests gift sets as an easy option, but also asks: "Is there a teenager who doesn't want to prove that they're the smartest in the family? Buy Ginger Fox, Mensa Genius Test (£7.99) – a card game that can be played with all their siblings."

Picky people

Sturdy suggests John Lewis' Gifts of Experience – an experience gift card, from which the recipient can choose a personal styling session, or home design advice with money to spend on products.

"I'd take a look at their hobbies and colour schemes at home," says Jenkinson. "At least try to buy them something. Gift receipts are your friend – money is a cop-out!"

Grandparents and elderly friends

"You could help them update their style with a joint personal styling appointment, finishing with a cream tea wearing their new outfits," advises Sturdy.

Or, go personal. Jenkinson suggests opting for anything made by the kids, or family photos – ready framed and set to take their place on the wall.

"Create a photobook with family snaps from across the years, or a hamper of treats to eat and drink," he suggests.